It’s hard. Well, of course it is. But it’s a bitch when you’re not a bottom, even though you want to be one. I never got it, as a boy. It always felt like rape. These days, however, I’m eager to take it.

There’s a surrender that takes over when you get older. You want that big dick plunging into you, hurting you. You turn into a slave and you like it, a receptacle, a seed dump. That means your man is breeding you and, yeah, you take it. He’s totally in control and his dick is more in charge. God, it’s hot as fuck.

- Jack X

Another great reason to invest in EC videos: computers stall. They fuck up. I’ve got cable, so everything should flow smoothly, right? Well, it don’t. Not always. I guess it depends on the upload, too - some load quickly and some take fucking forever.

Yeah, the free porn blogs are terrific. They bootleg very hot shit. But that doesn’t mean much when pop-ups jam your screen or the vid is loading at a snail’s pace. There’s an urgency when we’re at the PC, one hand on the keyboard, trousers dropped and the other hand…attending to business. At that point, when I can’t deal with any further delay, I’ll resort to vintage pictures or a few saved movies. Still and all, I just don’t understand why cable lets me down. You pay top dollar and yet you wait and wait. So I say - go with the vids you can thrust into your DVD player.

- Jack X

That’s directed to you, EC. You sweet bastard.

I guess I’m not immune to this spirit of romance that’s being pushed at us from every direction. Some time ago, I was asked about what men are after. Well, sex, I replied. Which is true. But that’s only half the picture. The truth of it is, is that most of us are equally after love. What makes sex hotter than when his eyes burn into yours? What’s sexier than when, after sex, he stays and you hold each other?

Maybe we’re more animalistic than the average female. Yet I believe our hearts still function and beat to the right drummers, nonetheless. So don’t give up on getting it all, guys. After all, I still have hopes of nailing EC’s fickles heart.

- Jack X

Nothing, and I mean nothing, is more of a turn-off to me than funky music playing in sex scenes. It may work just fine for mainstream films. It can amplify dramatic tension. It can, at best, provide wonderfully ambient background.

Not with porn, though. It just doesn’t belong and it actually removes whatever reality the most staged sex scenes can offer. Let’s face it - most gay porn has, to this day, awful dialogue (ironically, the bigger the producer, the worse the script). Better to keep it as realistic as possible. And most of us don’t have soundtracks blasting when we have sex.

- Jack X

Officially, it’s February. Aside from it being Black History Month, it has another bearing. It’s time for romance. It’s Valentine’s.

So, think about it. Is there a guy you’re after, someone you want to both get naked with and get to know better? Forget the candy and screw the roses. Send him an EC video with a note and your phone number on it. There are plenty of vids to choose from ( just check out enriquecruz.com), all guaranteed to inflame his passion. Get it gift-wrapped, too, to make it all the more romantic. Yeah, that means you have to have it sent to you first. Not a bad deal, all around. And it beats the shit out of a box of chocolate.

- Jack X, Playing Cupid