Grammar aside, I loved this comment: evn though this might not relate to the topic if you ever had thew oppurtunity would you fuck Castro Supreme, and if you do how, when, and where?

Well, I’ll be blunt. I’d fuck that hot stud anywhere he wanted me to. In a bathroom, in a mall, in a park, in a bed. As to how - I don’t know but I’m guessing Castro could be one mean fuck and I’d bottom for him.

Denny turns me on too. Then again, all his models do. That smoldering raw sensuality just knocks me out.
- Jack X

Since I missed Enrique’s big party last week, I decided to compensate. Compensation in this case means getting my paws on the hottest Latino I could find.

I admit that I envisioned him as EC himself. That made sucking his huge uncut dick easier. Then I fantasied that I picked this dude up from the party I never made it to, instead of buying him a few Tequilas at the bar across the street and groping his crotch. Well, so much of sex is in our heads anyway. We fuck, we suck, and we turn the dudes we’re with into the men who first got us raging. No harm. All is fair in love, war and cock.

But let me know about the party. How hot was it? How much fun? PS to EC: did you take your shirt off?

- Jack X

One day till Enrique’s big party. Who’s going? What you wearing? But, as I’m sort of a Net expert on gay dating, let me provide a few tips.

- Don’t go there looking for sex, no matter how hot EC’s boys are. Don’t misunderstand me; I know it’s all about sex. But I’ve had a lifetime of experience with these scenes and I tell you that nothing is more attractive than not needing it. Keep your head cool, calm and collected. They will come.

- Avoid recreational substances. I know, we turn to them for better attitudes. They don’t work. Diet Coke and great music actually performs the same trick.

- Somebody let me know how hot EC really is.

- Dance. Just keep your arms down, in straight-man fashion. And, lastly, have a great time.

- Jack X

No, I’m not talking about the U2 bass player. I’m talking about what I’ve talked about before - holding off. God, it feels good. The bad thing about beating off is that there’s nothing coming after. You’re left with no fantasy, left alone with no hard-on. there’s nothing to…look forward to.

But when you save it, when you practice great control to not cum, you feel a little bit on top of the world. You feel like a stud. You’re ready for anything that might come by in the next hour. You’re manly and you’re loaded.

Granted, this isn’t easy, especially after you watch a hot EC video. It’s worth it, though. When I go down the street to the market, I feel empowered and I like to see the other men bulging too. It makes curling into your bed even better.

- Jack X, hands off

I’ve written about how the holidays bring guys together, how they visit family in different places and feel freer to fuck around. What’s better than that? Today. Martin Luther King Day.

It’s a terrific chance for those of us on the prowl. So many men have the day off and we all know what that translates to - boners everywhere. Then, there’s none of the customary guilt. Christmas is long gone and there’s nothing especially sacrosanct about MLK Day. So we got us a ton of boned up men with a lot of empty hours on their hands.

Days off mean getting off for a healthy portion of the male population. Take advantage of it. Hit the listings, hit the arcades. Then book your tickets for EC’s big party. I don’t think anything’s gonna be hotter than that.

- Jack X

I’ve sung the praises of the man ass. God knows, I love it. I love eating it. I love fucking it.

Of course, there’s always the cock. Yep, I like ‘em. I like ‘em big and hard and shooting. But the truth is - and this may be a lousy revelation - nothing turns me on more than kissing. Making out. Groping can take place while it’s going on but even that isn’t needed. I can cum like a firehose when a stud digs his tongue into my mouth. There’s a level of potency that can’t even be matched by cocksucking, when a hot man has his lips locked onto yours. It’s lovemaking, plain and simple. There is, to my mind, nothing hotter.

- Jack X

PS Who likes it more when the dude’s eyes are open when he’s kissing you?

How does he find these guys? They’re absolutely fucking beautiful.

There’s a sensuality to the men of EC that bowls me over. They transmit pure, raw sexuality through a simple photo better then most vids I’ve seen. You can almost taste them. Maybe it has something to do with how young they are, but I don’t really believe that’s all of it. EC just manages to herd powerfully, erotically charged dudes with beautiful eyes and sexy as fuck bodies and dicks.

This is not, by the way, a paid endorsement. I was just beating off to another EC video and got carried away…

- Jack X

It’s really hard to not offend dudes when you talk about race. I’ve read the comments and I’m saddened that I pissed a few guys off. The reality is, I’m a middle-aged white man. I have biases. I have prejudices, I guess. This is what I was trying to explain earlier.

No, I don’t think that all Black men have huge dicks, nor do I think that all Latino men are sizzling hot. What I said came out of personal experience and I don’t think there’s much point in being too sensitive about it. From my background, white guys behave in a certain way sexually and men of color behave differently. There are old running jokes about how white men envy the size of Black guys. I didn’t want to go there. But what’s ironic is that my racism is directed more toward white men. Sex with them has always been for me a…blander experience. Yet, whatever I think personally and in regard to my sex, I still maintain that it’s nonsense to pretend that our individual races don’t affect how we act in bed.

- Jack X

Well, we live in the age of acronyms, right?

Now, I’m not one to go anywhere on New Year’s Eve. Never did, except the one night when I was a mere lad of twenty and the New York bartender looked at me and said, “Jack, what’re you doin’ out on amateur night?” And he was very right, then and now. New Year’s is traditionally the evening when every ass who never goes out goes out and goes nuts. This, I can do without. Especially since I ain’t twenty anymore.

But, guys, if you’re hitting a club or a party, be extra careful. I trust your driving and getting home safely - my concern is more that’s it’s too easy to fall in love when a new year dawns. We all get seduced by the sense that something cosmic is happening and we lose sight of the fact that the only galactic scene will occur when we meet the right one.

That lecture over, have a GREAT New Year’s Eve, men. And especial love to EC.

- Jack X

by Enrique Cruz

 Upon refection on this past year: 2007….this is the year of the blog, and opening up the conversation to all of you…it’s been great fun…and… 

 I’m so looking forward to 2008…so, to you guys out there hiding behind something, don’t be afraid to show your own true colors (cue tape of me sorta singing with Cyndi):

See ya next year…. and please, please,  ** Don’t Forget ** 2 pass the word out there on my one-time “Bad Boyz” Noche La Mancha club party in NYC: Jan 22nd 2008 <– click for flyer …and pass it around to your friends!!