A friend pointed out that my previous post was blatantly racist. I hollered. I denied it. Then I thought more about it. I dwelled. I pondered.

Most of us are racist, to one extent or another. I’m sure I am, to a degree. But I have huge problems with dudes who mask their own racism - that is to say, liking only Black men - under the guise of ‘preference’. Bias is bias, whether it’s a liking for a type or a dislike. And that’s racism. Calling it anything else is pure bullshit.
Then there was his issue with my saying that Black guys “are just like us”. Well, what if I had said that we’re just like them? Then would I be guilty of racism against white guys? My whole point is that racism has become such an inflated concept, it’s lost its validity. I do believe as well that REAL racism can only be combated one man at a time. You get to know the guy and you find  he is real and as human as you are.

Sorry to be so severe. I just wanted to explain my thoughts better, if I could.

- Jack X

I think I’ve mentioned this before but - what is the thing with white dudes chasing after black dick? I knew of this since long ago and never understood it. I used to call it the Mandingo Complex; white boys needing to submit to big Black bucks. Hell, I knew dudes who wouldn’t date a member of their own race. Had to be Black.

However, these days, I have a more visceral understanding. I’ve been with Black men. I’ve overcome my own bias and issues with it and, you know what? They’re just men. Like us. Except that they’re usually hung a lot better and last a lot longer. If that’s racist, I apologize. But I can’t ignore my experiences. Any thoughts?

- Jack X

Well, we’re here. So what you all gonna do in this brave new era?

I personally recommend concentrating on what gets you off. We all have our certain turn-ons - for me, it’s feet, underwear, and EC. (Don’t get me wrong about the feet thing, by the way. I don’t like to do stuff to them. But a barefoot guy is just so damn sexy.) Same thing with underwear. Men are hotter when a little is hidden.

Write in, guys. Tell us what gets you shooting like the fireworks on the 4th of July. And have a terrific New Year’s Day.

- Jack X