Grammar aside, I loved this comment: evn though this might not relate to the topic if you ever had thew oppurtunity would you fuck Castro Supreme, and if you do how, when, and where?

Well, I’ll be blunt. I’d fuck that hot stud anywhere he wanted me to. In a bathroom, in a mall, in a park, in a bed. As to how - I don’t know but I’m guessing Castro could be one mean fuck and I’d bottom for him.

Denny turns me on too. Then again, all his models do. That smoldering raw sensuality just knocks me out.
- Jack X

What makes a twink? I always used to assume it was just very young (legal, but young), and skinny and a little pretty. A boy, in the first flush of his (legal) sexuality. The other element of the twink was that, at least as far as porn movies showed, they were hung very big.

I think the twink has changed. Sure, some of the criteria are still observed: he’s got to be young and he’s got to be hung. But there’s also an aggressive side to the new twink - they were always supposed to be passive. Not anymore. It strikes me that the new twink is rougher. He will use that huge cock instead of just taking another one in the ass. He’s also built bigger, maybe only because boys work out more than they used to.

Thoughts on this? Send ‘em on.

- Jack X

I love cock. Big surprise? I didn’t think so. And I know full well that you dudes who check this site out love cock just as much. However…

I’d welcome some input on just how to take it in the mouth. Sucking is a dream - we want that monster down our throats but what do you do to not gag? See, I gag. I can’t help it. What I like best is to lick, maybe take just the head in my mouth.

But we all know that when horned-up men are in that state, they want to fuck face. I do try. I swallow as much as I can. I also love licking balls, basically making love to all the equipment down there. So what do I do when I’m choking, when that cock is literally being rammed down me? If I can’t breathe I can’t suck, and puking isn’t helpful to an erotic moment.

So, write in. Let me know how you do it.

- Thanks, Jack X

Since I missed Enrique’s big party last week, I decided to compensate. Compensation in this case means getting my paws on the hottest Latino I could find.

I admit that I envisioned him as EC himself. That made sucking his huge uncut dick easier. Then I fantasied that I picked this dude up from the party I never made it to, instead of buying him a few Tequilas at the bar across the street and groping his crotch. Well, so much of sex is in our heads anyway. We fuck, we suck, and we turn the dudes we’re with into the men who first got us raging. No harm. All is fair in love, war and cock.

But let me know about the party. How hot was it? How much fun? PS to EC: did you take your shirt off?

- Jack X

In the middle of the night I had something very close to a wet dream over the late, great porn star Jon Vincent. Jon had always turned me on because, for one thing, he was a top in the days before flip-flopping. If he ever bottomed, I never saw it.

Then, I loved his dirty talking during sex. I probably shouldn’t promote another blog here (sorry, EC) but nightcharm.com has a sensational tribute to him. Check it out - it also features some of his nastiest lines. My favorite? “Baby, I’m gonna do some damage here.”

But the best thing about him was his sensuality. He fucked hard but he always made love, too. There was a tenderness in his rough sex, as crazy as that sounds. Too bad that, like so many other porn stars, heroin ended his life.

- Jack X

I can only imagine how many gay bloggers have speculated on Heath’s passing. 28? He was still a baby.

But, in the media frenzy I’ve seen, it reminds me strongly of other babies who died before their time. Like Marilyn Monroe. Another beautiful blonde with talent. I can’t pretend to know whether Heath’s death was intentional or accidental. I do think that living in Soho in New York couldn’t have been very good for an Aussie. I once considered putting a bid on his house in Australia. Brokeback had just come out, he was hot stuff, and the house nicely priced.

My biggest concern, however, is how we react to this tragedy. I want us to mourn a good talent, not a gay icon. He was beautiful, to be sure. Yet we must bypass our crushes on him and simply feel for the family he left behind. Rest in peace, Heath. The angels do sing and you’ll hear them.

- Jack X

Vids are great - especially EC’s - but there’s still something about still photos that’s more erotic. When you look at nothing but a picture your imagination is free. You don’t need to get into the action a porn director felt was hot - you summon it in your mind.

And I love celebrity porn. I know it’s mostly photo-shopped. Yet it’s so exciting to imagine yourself with these hot stars. Is that really Jake’s dick up there? I doubt it. But who cares? The image is quite fine enough.

Then there’s Gary Conway, from way back when. He posed for Playgirl without ever showing his meat. Sexy as all get out.

- Jack X, still in love

When I was young and first starting jerking off, I never understood the whole cut/uncut thing. I thought all men were uncut and I didn’t understand how any guy could get into foreskin. There was something crude about it. It turned me off. I wanted my cocks clean, with fat mushroom heads unencumbered by extra skin.

Now I have different ideas. I love the erotic quality to a man beating off with all that surplus. And I love how funky it can be - it’s amazing to taste the musk of of uncut cock, to lick under the foreskin. It’s primitive and primal and hot as all hell.

- Jack X

One day till Enrique’s big party. Who’s going? What you wearing? But, as I’m sort of a Net expert on gay dating, let me provide a few tips.

- Don’t go there looking for sex, no matter how hot EC’s boys are. Don’t misunderstand me; I know it’s all about sex. But I’ve had a lifetime of experience with these scenes and I tell you that nothing is more attractive than not needing it. Keep your head cool, calm and collected. They will come.

- Avoid recreational substances. I know, we turn to them for better attitudes. They don’t work. Diet Coke and great music actually performs the same trick.

- Somebody let me know how hot EC really is.

- Dance. Just keep your arms down, in straight-man fashion. And, lastly, have a great time.

- Jack X

No, I’m not talking about the U2 bass player. I’m talking about what I’ve talked about before - holding off. God, it feels good. The bad thing about beating off is that there’s nothing coming after. You’re left with no fantasy, left alone with no hard-on. there’s nothing to…look forward to.

But when you save it, when you practice great control to not cum, you feel a little bit on top of the world. You feel like a stud. You’re ready for anything that might come by in the next hour. You’re manly and you’re loaded.

Granted, this isn’t easy, especially after you watch a hot EC video. It’s worth it, though. When I go down the street to the market, I feel empowered and I like to see the other men bulging too. It makes curling into your bed even better.

- Jack X, hands off