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The Race Is On
September 12th, 2007For a lot of years, I’ve known white gay guys who won’t go near another white gay guy. As I may have said, I call this the ‘Mandingo’ complex, a reverse-racism of dick.
Now it seems I’m getting yet another revelation in my middle age. That is, black dudes are hot to me and not because they’re black, necessarily. It’s taken way too long but I think my seeing black men as just plain men - not an easy feat for a blue-collar NJ man - is finally happening. I’m not proud of this delay factor. I’m being, in fact, brutally honest. I only know that sitting by a hot black stud at a bar last night got to me in a purely man-to-man manner. I wasn’t thinking of jungle love. I wasn’t thinking of slave trade, or some idiot sense of bigger black dick. I was simply knocked out by a sexy, dark man.
- Jack X
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September 12th, 2007 at 3:19 pm
hot, hot
September 12th, 2007 at 10:36 pm
And yet, you used the word “stud” to describe him.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/stud
stud2 /stʌd/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[stuhd] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation,
–noun 1. a studhorse or stallion.
2. an establishment, as a farm, in which horses are kept for breeding.
3. a number of horses, usually for racing or hunting, bred or kept by one owner.
4. a male animal, as a bull or ram, kept for breeding.
5. a herd of animals kept for breeding.
6. Slang. a man, esp. one who is notably virile and sexually active.
7. Poker. stud poker.
–adjective 8. of, associated with, or pertaining to a studhorse or studhorses.
9. retained for breeding purposes.
—Idiom10. at or in stud, (of a male animal) offered for the purpose of breeding.
September 13th, 2007 at 8:02 am
like with all words, “stud” has different meanings to different people, don’t think the writer was trying to say it in a bad way.
September 16th, 2007 at 2:10 am
“Now it seems I’m getting yet another revelation in my middle age. That is, black dudes are hot to me and not because they’re black, necessarily. It’s taken way too long but I think my seeing black men as just plain men ”
Greatly worded let me just add. Don’t flame me or get me wrong. but honestly, this is the reason why i get middle age white guys messaging me and hitting on me and other black guys at the clubs and I’m half their age and this has been happening since i was 18 and i’m now 28. honestly, it’s like most white american boys are too afraid, b/c’of cliques and prejudices and stereotypes they grew up with, to admit that they’ll go on a date with a black guy till they’re middle age and think they can still attract the black guys who are from their early 20s to 40s.. i’ve never had this problem with non american white boys my age or younger.
September 18th, 2007 at 5:39 pm
white boiz, brown boiz, black boiz, blah, blah, blah…what a little soup we all live in. what i love about the cruz line
is the sense that things flow easily from brown to black and back again. here’s little cautionary tale. Once there was a white guy, eric (insert any race) and he really was “into” asian guys (insert any race) . One day he mights david, an asain guy (insert any race). they were a match and they fell in love. One year later. Things are not going so well. Why? well, it seems that eric is annoyed that david is too “white” and david is bored of all of eric’s interest in all things asian. Moral? Date the man not the race. You might find the human connection the hottest one of all.
September 20th, 2007 at 10:38 am
Now here in the DC metropolitan area, I’m in DC, we have lots of El Salvadorians. But I noticed a few years ago reading personals ads on line, most of the latino guys are not into black men. They will choose their type in the profile as, Latino/Hispanic, White/Cacausian, Interracial, other and mybe Middleeastern. But When I search the NY area ads just to browse, I’m seeing a lot of the latinos do choose AfricanAmerican/Black as a choose. Guess it’’s just the area I live in I suppose.
September 29th, 2007 at 4:57 pm
OMG!!
soo hoooT!
what movie it is?
October 7th, 2007 at 6:43 pm
It doesn’t matter how the writer believed he contextualized the word. The word is inseparable from its source meaning. And his choice to use it quite telling.
October 8th, 2007 at 3:21 pm
bobby there’s no doubt that we, as humans, suffer from dancing around the politically correct word use…the word fuck to me means something very different to the old lady walking her cat…I believe Jack X intent was more about revealing the division….and finding a hope of the division in races.
In a perfect world everyone would know the meaning of a word and the political correctness…for me, it’s better to focus on the good and not the baggage we all carry.
ec