I don’t know if it’s the same in the Latino community, but one happy consequence of modern gay life is that older has become a hot commodity. At least, more so. Boys always turned to dads, yeah. But that polarity factor seems more and more a turn-on these days, especially as more and more straight boys explore their hidden urges.

I’m not kidding. I know. I’m older. I had thought in my thirties that my days were numbered and I’d soon be left with no alternatives but my hand, or using my hand to reach into my wallet. Ain’t true. I can’t say how many of today’s bi-jock generation had serious father issues. I can tell you, though, that a fucking lot of dads in the ’70’s and ’80’s must’ve spent too much time at work, because they left behind a generation of sons who desperately want man loving. More on this here.

- Jack X, who is not complaining

That’s a possible name for the Enrique Cruz reality show I envision, EC’s vehement objections to joining that media circus notwithstanding.

See, for reasons best left unsaid, I’ve been in front of the TV a lot lately, and a lot of it in front of Bravo. Have you been there lately? Have you seen what I’ve seen? Gayness is growing within these shows like vines on a cottage. It isn’t made a big deal of. It’s just there, as in the strangely cute contestant on Top Chef, Dale. Or in the incompetent and archtypal queen on Welcome to the Parker. Their gayness is directly referred to and whether this is in itself a Bravo strategy doesn’t really matter. I find it fucking amazing that what so recently would’ve had big red arrows pointing to it is now increasingly merely a mentioned fact.

So. How many years will it be, do you think, before the Big B launches the next phase, a series of episodes from the life of a real porn entrepreneur? They can blur out the dicks and asses. Hell, they do that now already. Graphic language would be cool; the “fucks” fly on Top Chef and are bleeped out in a very, very negligible way. And, let me tell you - the public, straight and gay, will eat this up.

Think on it, EC. As long as it’s done with humor, you’d never be guilty of taking it or yourself too seriously. Like that bitch hostess of Top Chef who, I swear, was once a man.

- Jack X, who doesn’t think Dale will win

** BEHIND THE BUTT:  In this xxxclusive video clip we meet “Avalanche” — most agree, he was rightfully named, we met him working as a stripper in a club…and heard he fucks like a ton of bricks hits — and for “Doing the Butt # 7” he made a stella premiere! 

 Here are some pics that speak for themselves:

His “First-time” on cam – he wasted no time showing us everything we wanted to see in a action scene…and he quickly became an EnriqueCruz.com **  fan favorites!  Watch for yourself:

by Enrique Cruz

I wrote earlier about “Traveling Dicks” for the “GaySexReport.com” and got great feedback on my own reality show playing out here…including this e-mail: “your casting video was funny, so how long before we see the Flava of Cruz reality show on VH1?” — My Reply: ‘never seen the Flava Flav show on VH1…and I’m not sure I wanna be another sudo-celeb checking for that 12 minutes of fake fame…but, I’m having fun shooting the video clips for this blog…maybe George Michael would be a better host…

Oh, Speaking of Park Cruisin’ …(something George Michael is now famous for) — here’s my own trip to a Park in Washington DC…let’s just say, shooting this clip was very surreal and educational all at once…and hopefully ‘hella funny…um, let’s Roll tape:

*** be sure to keep those comments and e-mails coming!!

by Enrique Cruz

Without sounding too Gay — ‘Looking forward to watchin’ Leo DiCaprio get Gore-y with “The 11th Hour“ –  the environmental doc that lets viewers know: ”This is what happens when you fuck Mother Nature in the ass.”

The Flicks “Live More, Consume Less” message, while admirable, will be wasted on most of the SUV-lovin’ suburbia masses…but, lets hope ”green” clicks with a few more next-gens — with a need for flossin’ hybrids. 

by Enrique Cruz

Over the past ten years working as Porn Director — ‘Two most asked questions: “What’s it like on a porn set?” and “What’s the casting process like?” — ‘K, so, since I started the blog, I’ve turned the cameras on myself to capture a sense of what my life is like.

In this video clip: “On set” / “outside casting” …and the following discussion with Randy will hopefully give you a sense of how I run a set: I arrive on set with an idea, think fast on my feet, but I’m always open to new ideas…

…and it’s so important to me that we all keep it light…so, a sense of humor during the whole process is very important to me to get through the day…any–who…Let’s roll tape (drop me some comments):

by Enrique Cruz

‘Got this message on Washington, DC:  ”I’ve been to Washington and my boyfriend lived there for awhile and found it boring. I find if you go to a random gay bar and drink excessively (which isn’t hard to do because it’s so cheap compared to NYC) you will have the best time. “  — I guess any place you live could be called “boring” (even with loads of drinks). 

 Here’s a good definition on Boring:

“If children are raised in an environment devoid of stimuli, and are not encouraged to interact with their environment, they will fail to develop the mental capacities to do so.

These children are then bored even when placed in an environment others would find stimulating.” 

In other words, boring, is mostly just a state of mind (or bad parenting)…here’s a short clip on my DC Trip (roll tape):

Hopefully, it wasn’t too boring.
 

by Enrique Cruz

‘Reading about our “rehab-obsessed society” and the trend to drink and party..and clean up for 30 days.

The coolest room for  star-fucking seems to be in “Rehab.”

Personally, I’m not big on star fucking…(um, I take that back…’just depends on the star) — but, I like the idea of a “celeb rehab make-over.” — (except for the not drinking part…that’s just seems wrong)……But, it’s like getting your car washed…’gotta love the shiney new glow of hope.

by Enrique Cruz

 ’Always looking for new Models…’taggin along tonight with hostess “Harmonica Sunbeam” on a road trip to the Nation’s Capital for another club stop…stop by and say “hi” if you are in Washington DC area, or can help behind the scenes with casting new hotties…

Speaking of Behind the Scenes…we’ll have some xxxclusive video footage next week of the new DVD-r release: “Doing the Butt # 23″ — ‘look out for it.